Mujeriego?

I talked with "W"...
Hes an attractive looking italian guy Ive known for 6 months now. He is always talking of getting together on a weekend and seeing the city of NYC...


It sounded nice. I do need to get away for a while...like a small vacation. He always talks of how he cooks great pasta dishes and likes nice wine and great movies.


Somehow in the middle of our conversations, he always manages to say "You are sooo sweet and beautiful. You are like a fairytale dream"...


Its so sweet to hear such beautiful words...but I've heard them before. I'm not quite sure yet if its a line hes using, or if hes genuine...
Hes always talking about all the stuff he wants to buy me, and how bad he wants to impress me...Hes always going on and on about about how he insists that I stay in one of his beautiful lofts in Manhattan, and how he would let me use his credit cards to buy clothes or perfumes or whatever of this and that and this and that and blah blah blah...




then I found out that hes got a girlfriend. Why do men with girlfriends even bother to approach me? Do I look like the chick for cheating or something? Its like I have giant words tattooed on my forehead that say "Come cheat on your lady with me!"



I told "W" that we can still be friends, but not much more than that. He said I'm just playing hard to get and that hes sure that he can change my mind after I go to New York. Why would he think that? Why can't he see that some women just don't want to be with a guy whose already in a committed relationship!

**sighs**